Relation Coaching EFT - Intimacy and Sexuality

Sharing our life with another being is one of the greatest adventures a person can experience. Like all adventures, this one is not always without surprises and difficulties. In a relation we flourish and we also experience vulnerability. Love invites us to reveal the best in ourselves. At the same time, sure in contact with our loved one, we notice that our shadow sides come easily up. Our relationship is therefore a great invitation to learn, heal patterns and grow.

At the beginning of the relationship, the crush helps to experience the other as the most special being. Almost effortlessly we adapt to the wishes of our  beloved. Over time, adjusting takes more effort and we feel the challenge of staying true to ourselves within the relationship. Constantly, a love relationship is about attuning to your own needs and those of your partner at the same time. The adventure of love it also involves making an effort to keep the relationship vibrant and healthy by paying attention to what is nourishing. Due to the stress of everyday life, because the needs of one of the partners change, because we experience disagreements more often… the love adventure can feel like a too difficult task to accomplish. The grind of life can take over, we lose the feeling of togetherness and we miss intimacy with each other.

With Relationship Coaching you learn to pay attention to your relationship again, to have awareness of your needs and also those of your partner. Through EFT (Emotion Focused Therapy) you gain insight into the patterns that influence the dynamics of the relationship and what you can do to get the feeling of togetherness again. In addition, in the Relationship Coaching we take the time to explore new ways of intimacy and sexuality. Through exercises from Tantra you gain insight into your desires and how you can share them with each other. You explore how intimacy, sexuality and pleasure can be a source of growth and deepening in the relationship.

About EFT

Especially in our love relationship we want to feel safe and valued. The human need for connection and attachment goes beyond childhood. Especially in our love relationship we want to feel safe and appreciated. Many of the difficult moments between partners have to do with the fear that the other person will not be there for us, will not see us, or will not accept us as we are. Because of the stress we then experience, we attack or withdraw into ourselves. Both actions are oh, so understandable, but only bring more removal, which is exactly what we don't want.

In an EFT trajectory you gain insight into these pitfalls in order to be able to choose a loving approach to each other. You also practice communicating your needs constructively in an open way without pressuring the other person. You learn to take care of the relationship together. The effects on your relationship will be profound and transformative. This form of therapy is based on the work of Sue Johnson (book tip: Hold me tight).

LOCATION

Relationship Coaching takes place in Amsterdam, Bennebroekstraat 33-2 hoog.

PRICE

An introductory meeting of about half an hour is free.

The cost of a 90 minute Relationship Coaching session depends on  your income you can choose one of those three options. 
High budget: € 250 euro excl. 21% btw.
Medium budget: € 150 euro excl. 21% btw.
Minimum budget: € 100 euro excl. 21% btw.